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My Favorite Mother’s Day Finds for My Mom (And Maybe Yours)
In this edition: gift suggestions and product reviews for GPS tracking devices, ID wearables, pill reminder systems, medical and fall alert systems, and an AI innovation that's bringing care to a new level.

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🎉 Special Mother’s Day Edition! 🎉 • 🎁Gift Ideas and Product Reviews for Mom! 🎁 |

December, 1984. I love you forever and ever, mom.
Happy Mother’s Day!
Mother’s Day is a time to honor the women who shaped us, and for many of us — including me — that means caring for a mom who now needs our support. This week’s newsletter is a celebration of those moms.
By the way, if you're still searching for a meaningful gift or a helpful tool to make her days a little safer, more comfortable, or more joyful, I’m going to cover that in this special edition.
This week’s newsletter features a curated collection of thoughtful products designed for moms living with dementia. From clever tracking devices to stylish medical IDs and engaging tech companions, these ideas are here to inspire—not just for gifting, but for making everyday life a little easier for both of you.
🎁 Gift Ideas and Product Reviews for Mom! 🎁
Mother’s day is tomorrow, May 11th! How did it get here so fast? Do you have any great plans? I went shopping for my mom this week, and found a bunch of products that are pretty darn neat.
I’ve put together some of my favorite ones below in case you are still looking for something special that will make your loved one’s life — and your own — a little easier, safer, and maybe even more fun.
GPS tracking:
Several companies are now leveraging the power of GPS to create innovative solutions that help us keep up with confused or wandering loved ones. Here are some of my favorites.
Metalert GPS SmartSoles: out of everything I looked at, this is the most exciting new product for me — shoe sole inserts that contain GPS tracking. How clever is that?!
Bouncie GPS Tracker for Vehicles: maybe the time hasn’t come yet to take the keys, but you’re starting to feel worried about your loved one’s driving. Bouncie plugs in inconspicuously and tracks driving habits, car information, and location.
Apple AirTags: if you use Apple products, the Apple AirTags can give you an affordable solution that’s very effective. Just keep in mind that if they don’t have the tag with them, it won’t help. Develop a plan to make sure they always have it.
If you need more tips on how to reduce the risk of Wandering, try out my training on Managing Behaviors available through the elumenEd website.
Identification and Medical Information Wearables
Medical identification is getting more innovative, and even a little more stylish. I love that many of them are integrating QR codes to provide medical information: when they scan the code, a first responder is taken to a web site with all of the necessary information.
ROAD iD Personalized Medical Identification Bracelet: with lots of colors to choose from, this attractive bracelet is personalized with your loved one’s critical information engraved on it. Durable, waterproof, and long lasting.
QR Code Alert ID Tag for Watch Band: does your loved one already have a watch they wear all of the time? This QR tag fits on their current band so there’s no battle about having them remember to wear it.
Dynotag Medical Alert Necklace QR ID w/ Detailed Online Profile: if your loved one is more likely to wear a necklace, or they’re already used to wearing a pendant, this necklace style QR identification tag could be perfect.
Pill Reminder Systems:
The perennial pill problem! Virtually everyone assisting a loved one with dementia runs into the situation where a loved one loses track of their pill regimen and misses critical medication. These products aim to assist with tools to help remember.
Monthly Pill Organizer, 4x/day, 31 Days, w/ Talking Alarm Reminders: thanks to an innovative design, this large pill organizer allows you to schedule up to 124 doses (31 days x 4 doses per day). If you’re setting up pills, you can get all of your loved one’s pills organized for the month in one fell swoop. The talking alarm system provides reminders whenever a dose is due.
ORKA Talking Clock Pill Reminder w/ XL Screen: this clock has an extra large screen with a variety of alarm reminders. You can even record your own voice reminder to give specific directions or just make it more personal.
Medical and Fall Alert Systems:
Kanega Fall Detection Smart Watch: named the best smartwatch of 2024 by the National Council on Aging, the Kanega system provides help through their push button, voice assist, and fall detection. It’s a stylish addition to medical alert product options.
Alexa Emergency Assist: it used to be that Alexa was mostly good for breaking into dinner conversations when you mention an “election” or “a letter” to your family! But now Amazon also offers an Emergency Assistance service that’s pretty handy if you already have a device.
Bay Alarm SOS Mobile GPS and Medical Alert: Bay Alarm was established in 1946 and their products were ranked well in every review of medical alert systems I found online. The Amazon ratings are less than stellar, but I trust the National Council on Aging more when it comes to dementia product reviews. They give Bay Alarm 4.5/5 stars.
New and Innovative:
ElliQ — Your AI Sidekick: if you and your loved one are brave early adopters of new technology, ElliQ looks like a pretty cool entry into the intersecting worlds of AI and aging. Your loved one can chat with “Elli,” do activities, share pictures with you, and have video chats. It includes music and audiobooks, games, exercises, and more. It can also provide you with a log of your loved one’s activities and health routines so you can stay involved. If ElliQ delivers on its promises, I think the price is reasonable.
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🚗 How to Have the Car Key Conversation 🔑
How to Have the Most Difficult Conversation: It’s Time to Stop Driving The time to start planning this conversation is well before you need to have it. I didn’t plan ahead, and my mom and I both paid the price. I knew she was having trouble with driving. She had had a couple of minor accidents. Her friends were a little worried. Her insurance agent was nudging me. I stuck my head in the sand. When the crisis came — when she had a total meltdown, lost in the middle of Tucson — it all came crashing down. I had to take immediate action, get the car keys, and take away her independence in a single day, with no emotional preparation. It was brutal and emotionally devastating for both of us. | This training module is about fixing everything I did wrong. You don’t have to go through what we did. Plan ahead. You don’t have to be caught by surprise or make my mistakes. Our moms deserve better. |
🌼 Fun Facts about Mother’s Day 🌼
The modern Mother’s Day was founded by Anna Jarvis. She created the day to honor her own mother, Ann Reeves Jarvis, a peace activist who cared for wounded soldiers and promoted public health. It was a tribute to Ann’s lifetime of caregiving. Anna started her campaign in 1905 — the year of her mother’s death — and by 1911 all US states observed the holiday.
In 1908, Congress rejected a proposal to make the day a national holiday, joking that if they did they would also have to create a “mother-in-law’s day.”
Jarvis was adamant that it should be spelled “Mother’s” day, not Mothers or Mothers’. She believed it should be a day for each family to celebrate their mother personally, rather than a general celebration of all mothers.
Initially Jarvis chose white carnations as the official flower to symbolize the purity of a mother’s love. In modern times, pink carnations symbolize living mothers while white carnations symbolize mothers who have passed.
Mother’s Day is one of the busiest days of the year for phone calls and the busiest day for restaurants. I hope you made your reservations!

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I’ve been a dementia professional for over 20 years, but the fight against this disease has become much more personal for me as I am engaged in my mother’s journey with Alzheimer’s disease. I started The Dementia Newsletter as well as it’s parent company, elumenEd, to help caregivers — specifically home and family caregivers — gain access to the very best training and information available at an affordable price.
At The Dementia Newsletter, we’re dementia professionals but we’re not medical doctors or lawyers. The information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for medical diagnosis, treatment, or any health-related concerns and consult with a lawyer regarding any legal matters.
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